Cara untuk mengetahui kita dilamun cinta

Salamm semua, it's me! Well, it's been a while. It really has been a while.

I was thinking of creating love stories and post them here. But, instead. I did other thing which is actually blogging. Jom kita mula dengan tajuk kita malam ni. Cinta atau bukan? Orait, yet another post about loooove. Why do I like to post these kind of thingsss. Well. No reason, really. Here, I'd like to tell you the ways on how can you make sure that you're in love or it's just lust. Or other things. But, definitely not love. Untuk tahu kitaa ni betul betul dilamun cinta, 

1. Kita akan sebut nama dia dalam doa kita. Minta Allah lindungi dia. Jaga dia. Sihatkan dia. Beri kejayaan padanya. Dan kuatkannya. 

2. Kalau dah doa tu, dah tentu tentulah kita nakkan dia sangat sangat. 

That's all mann. Tu je tanda dia. Bukan angau setiap masa, mandi tak basah, makan tak kenyang semuaaa. Bagi bunga, bagi ayat sweet sampai nak termuntah, bagi nyanyi lagu jiwang, call 24 jam, mesej tak berhabisss. Buat habis kredit. Not that. Thats just some lies. Thats not love. 

I guess thats all, internet people. Byeeeee.

Dating as viewed by me

Boys.

They become dumb when they're in the company of beautiful girls. Why eh? That's the cause of their hormone, anxiety and it is the impact of adrenaline. Well, boys. Out of many topics in this world, why on Earth would I write about boys? Simply because it's one of our (girls) favourite topic to talk about. Not being a sexist or anything, but there are just about so many things that I hate about boys/guys. Maybe that's why I don't date. Well, I don't date simply because I don't want to. It's not even a priority. At least, it isn't to me. I understand why teenagers nowadays date. Somehow, I don't want to. 

I'm not trying to be a hypocrite or anything but I'm not saying that I wouldn't want to date, ever. It's just that I've not found any good reason for me to do so (and I don't think there will be any). When it comes to having a crush on somebody, I'm not excluded. I don't mind looking at sweet photos or read sweet messages from couples (unmarried ones). I won't say, "untunglah ada boyfriend" because, before I say that, I will ask myself, "untung ke?". Seriously, when it comes to non-halal relationships, there is nothing sweet about it. At least, that's what I think. My aim is marriage. Not, relationships. Not, break ups. Not on and off relationships. Another thing I don't like about relationships are the calling names like 'sayang', 'abang', 'baby'. Oh my, I can't handle that. People may see me as a jiwang person because I'm into romantic movies and love songs and stuffs. But, I dislike the yuckie names like I have stated above. If it's me, I'd like to use just names. Our real names. If I like you, I'll love everything about you. No sweet nicknames needed. 

Again, why am I writing about this? Because A Walk To Remember, 200 Pounds of Beauty and The Notebook. Yeah, blame it on them. I'm actually into everything that's related to love. Dem you soft heart! All in all, I believe in love after marriage. I believe in that and I want that. I actually have tons of views on this particular topic. But, I don't think I'd write all of them here. Some things are meant to be unspoken and be kept to myself.

Anyway, lovebirds, I envy you. I really do. But, I wouldn't want to be like you (the unmarried couples). People asked me, how would you fall in love with someone that you don't know? This refers to getting know each other after marriage with only one taaruf before marriage. My answer is simple, I trust Allah. I don't know how would He arrange the ways on how am I going to fall in love with my future husband. But, I believe in happiness and barakah from Him. I leave everything to Allah.

He is in fact, the Maha Cinta.